In my previous blog “Stereotypes,” I mentioned the dismal statistics for writers of color in the publishing industry. Today, I want to talk about the content that writers of color are able to get published. It’s a fact, that a book by an African American writer has a higher chance of getting published if it is about slavery or the civil rights era. The same is true for South Asian literature. Tragedy sells. Growing up, I didn’t know any South Asian writers. As I grew older and started seeing more books by South Asian writers, I wasn’t always inclined to read them because they just seemed so sad. I was an immigrant and I knew the struggles of being an immigrant, but life wasn’t all sad. I read books by famous South Asian authors like Jhumpa Lahiri and although it was a nice change to see my culture reflected in literature, I didn’t quite connect with the stories in those books. My family and I lived a difficult life, but we also lived a fun and adventurous life. It seems that most literature published by writers of color today is tragic. Why does the publishing industry only want to publish our tragedies? Does no one want to read happy stories about us? Of course not. It’s just that the publishing industry is still very closed minded when it comes to writers of color and apparently the only way our stories are valid to them is if we are suffering. Writers of color aren’t taken seriously if they don’t write serious tragic stories. The trend of publishing mostly tragic stories about and by people of color needs to stop. When I began working on my memoir, I decided my book wasn’t going to be all tragedy. I wanted it to represent not just my culture but also the entire range of emotions I have lived through. I am fully aware that humor is difficult to do. It is especially difficult to put into a book where you have to deliver without the help of body language and intonation of voice. I took a humor writing class in my M.F.A. writing program which helped me become a better writer and helped me figure out which type of humor fits well with my voice. I don’t claim to be an expert on humor but I know that I have more fun writing when I use humor and I get much more fulfillment out of readers chuckling at my writing than crying through it. I am a person who doesn’t take life too seriously and I want my writing to reflect that attitude. Lately, I have been encouraged by authors such as Scaachi Koul, Balli Kaur Jaswal, Samantha Irby, Issa Rae, Eddie Huang, and Trevor Noah who tell our stories with such depth and lightness. They balance the tragedy with the fun moments that make up life. They are unafraid to make fun of themselves and that is the quality I admire most in people. From them I have learned that in order to write humor, you have to be comfortable with being vulnerable and you have to be able to see the humor in difficult situations. I hope to continue to see more women of color writing their truths and making us laugh along the way. I also hope to add more laughter and light to the world with my own writing. You can check out my humor writing here.
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Last night, I was watching an old episode of The Office where Steve Carell’s character is giving out awards to his employees and he hands Mindy Kaling’s character the “Spicy Curry” award.
She asks him what it means, but he doesn’t know. This is real life. I’ve lost count of the number of times my ethnicity has been reduced to a bowl of curry. As soon as my race or ethnicity is mentioned, my coworker/roommate/professor/stranger/any non-South Asian person that happens to be around me at the time, feels the uncontrollable need to tell me their opinion on curry until my entire being is reduced to a bowl of curry. I talk about this in my memoir in an essay called “How to Make a Delicious Bowl of Hot Curry.” As women of color, we all get reduced to stereotypes related to our race and gender. Unfortunately, since there are more books about people of color by white people than books written by actual people of color, these stereotypes persist in our literature.
As some of you brought up after reading my previous blog, I don’t have a problem with White people writing characters of color as long as they do their due diligence and research. Of course, I prefer characters of color written by people of color because they are richer and more authentic, but at the end of the day, if the character is believable and complex it shouldn't matter who wrote it. Unfortunately, many white writers don't realize that in order to write characters of color, they have to put in the extra work.
For example, here is a story about a former client: I had a client who is a middle-aged white woman. Her goal was to make an educational and inspirational story with diverse characters for children. I was excited to work on this project with her because my passion is in education and telling diverse stories so it was right up my alley. As time went on, however, I realized that her only collaboration on this project was with other white women and she wasn’t open to my suggestions about her characters of color. Her story ended up including several stereotypes and shallow characters of color. She had a prominent adult male mentor figure in the comic who contributed by being absent the entire time thus perpetuating the absent black father/role model stereotype. Her goal was to include as many races and ethnicities as she could, but she completely omitted a black female character from the story which perpetuated the reality we all know of black women being one of the most neglected minority groups in the United States. She created a Japanese-American female character who came off very studious, robotic, and emotionally cold perpetuating the stereotype of Japanese people as intelligent and industrious to the level of being inhuman. Although there were many such stereotypes in her story, I gave her the benefit of the doubt that she didn’t write them intentionally. Afterall, she hired me because writing is not her forte. Unfortunately, she wasn’t open to my suggestions as a professional writer or a person of color so there was no way for me to explain these things to her without her getting defensive. Like this client, there are many White writers out there who are writing characters of color without realizing that they need to research or consult with people of color when writing. Of course, ignorance is not an excuse. This is another reason I passionately feel that we need to write down our stories. Our stories need to exist and the only way to make them authentic is for us to write them ourselves. Today, there are blogs and social media pages made by women of color for women of color that I'm grateful for. The internet is a great way for us to bypass the barriers of the publishing world, and share our stories online. That is why I write this blog and I hope I can encourage you all to write your own. How do you deal with stereotypes in the writing world? Share your stories with me in the comments below.
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You can sign up for my newsletter at the bottom of the page for updates on my writing and my events. Next Wednesday’s blog will be more #browngirlwrites stories. Until then… Happy Writing! :) Find me on social media. Links at the bottom of the page ?? Here I am reading a small excerpt from my essay "Memory." This essay is continuing the theme of yesterday's #browngirlwrites blog: "My Story" Please feel free to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments. :) When I was growing up, as an Indian-American girl in the United States, I didn’t know any writers or authors that looked like me and told the story of my family. I fell in love with writing when I was nine years old, but I didn’t know that it was something I could do as a profession. I didn’t know people like me made a living off of writing.
A couple of weeks ago, I was listening to an author speak who I will not name (out of respect and because I can’t remember). She was an older white woman and she was talking about how she came to write her book. She spoke about going into refugee camps to get a story. After visiting several refugee camps and meeting many refugees, she kept repeating the phrase “I knew there was a story there.” There were a few things that concerned me about her talk:
To put it simply, it sounded like exploitation. In that moment I thought, I would much rather read a story about being a refugee from an actual refugee than from her and I’m glad I have my own stories to tell. It was in that moment I realized how important it is for me as a brown woman and an immigrant to tell my story before somebody else capitalizes on it. I realized that I don’t need to go prying into other people’s lives to find things to write about. My life has rarely been written about. There is already “a story there.” A story so unique and adventurous that I can’t find it in any book I’ve ever come across. There aren’t many things more unique and adventurous than the life of a woman of color living in the United States. In that moment I got all the confidence I needed to finish my memoir and get my story out as soon as possible. I’m writing this today to tell those of you who have been doubting yourselves and your ability to write, draw, sing, whatever your artform may be: Your story is important and it is your responsibility to get it out. No one can tell your story better than you so don’t let them. Whatever your medium, go create something that tells people about you. Thanks for reading! Please feel free to leave comments below with your thoughts and experiences. You can sign up for my newsletter at the bottom of the page for updates on my writing and events I'm attending. Next Wednesday’s blog will be more #browngirlwrites stories. Until then… Happy Writing! :) Find me on social media. Links at the bottom of the page 👇🏽 For those of you who have been reading my blog every week, this blog will be a big change. For those of you who are reading this for the first time, welcome!
Many of you know by now, I am an Indian-American writer located in Atlanta and I am an MFA thesis candidate in Writing. My thesis, which I will submit on Friday (***stressed***), is part of my first book--my memoir. Through the process of putting together my thesis, I have written half of my memoir. I shared this process every week on this blog and had great conversations with many of you that kept me motivated. Now, I am taking a slightly different turn with my blogs. I will blog about the experience of being a brown woman in the United States who writes. In the #browngirlwrites series, I will still discuss the writing process, however, it will be tailored to my experience as a brown woman. I will discuss the experiences I have had in the writing world from going through an MFA program to talking to agents and editors as a woman of color. I will talk about what it means to write diverse stories, how they are perceived by the people in the industry, and the interesting conversations I have had with other women of color who are writers or are in the publishing industry. I’m tailoring my blogs to be specific to my experiences. This will make them more authentic and allow me to have deeper, more meaningful conversations about being a woman writer of color. I will also be sharing more of my memoir writing with you all and reviewing books written by authors of color. These blogs are about to get very personal! I’m excited to share these more intimate blogs with you all and hope that you will join me in sharing your own stories using #browngirlwrites. If you are a woman writer of color, I would love to interview you and share your story on these blogs as well. Being a woman of color who writes opens us up to many unique experiences (good and bad) and I want to hear these experiences from you all so we can create a stronger community and support each other. I know I am not alone in this journey. Again, thank you all for reading my blog. Please feel free to leave comments below with your thoughts and experiences. Sign up for my newsletter at the bottom of the page for updates on my writing and up coming events. Next Wednesday’s blog will be more stories of #browngirlwrites Until then… Happy Writing! :) Find me on social media. Links at the bottom of the page 👇🏽 |
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